Indeed. And I like
this even less.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="TImes, TimesNR, serif">quote:</font><hr> Dear Miss Manners,
I have been married to the girl next door for 22 years and when we married we were both in very good shape. We have three wonderful children and a marriage that lacks for romance. <p>I have maintained my size and shape after all these years because of my workout habits. My wife, even after the three births, was able to maintain a very sexy figure for years because of her workout habits. <p>Over the last six years, she has lost most of the joy and a majority of her discipline to work out and has gained weight. She went from a slim 120 pounds to 145 pounds and grew from a size small (6) to a large (10). Over the last year I have mentioned her weight many times. Too many times, to the point that I have hurt her feelings with several of these comments. <p>This is my question. How can I tell her the truth of how I feel toward her without hurting her? I still love her and would never divorce her but I have lived for the last six years with a women that I did not marry and would not have dated 22 years ago at her current size. She is only 40 years old! <p> <hr></blockquote><p>Miss Manners didn't exactly give him a free pass in her response, but it was disappointing that that she didn't bother refuting his bizarre belief that a size 10 was "large."