<blockquote><font size="1" face="TImes, TimesNR, serif">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by SusanV: Are you guys completely certain that sucks comes from the sexual act? I have always been under the impression that the original term was "sucks egg" (or eggs, I forget which) and that it eventually was truncated. <p>I found this on a Web site via ask jeeves: "According to the Dictionary of Slang, it originated in the 1960s to mean 'worthless, objectionable, pointless or disappointing.' "<p>I can't find anything supporting a sexual connotation in any of my dictionaries. Where are you getting this from?<hr></blockquote><p>Whenever I said it about something or someone, as a child of the 1960s and 1970s, I was thinking of the sexual connotation. We didn't have any lexicographers in my neighborhood, where it referred to fellatio performed by a man -- something you wouldn't want to be caught doing. <p>I seldom use the term now, though, mindful of homophobia and how gratuitously offensive it is to so many people.<p>Sure, "suck" is used in a different way today, as a non-literal putdown, much as "gay" is. And that's fine -- given the right audience. <p>In this thread we've read mention of mothers and grandmothers who use "fuck," and been told that the word doesn't offend anymore. Well, fine, I hope our elders who speak that way live for many years in good health. But I have grandparents I can imagine would have chosen death over using that word; I wouldn't want to test my parents that way, but I'm confident that they'd cancel their subscription to any of the newspapers they buy if they saw that word on a page, and they'd campaign for others to do so. And they wouldn't think much more highly of "suck."<p>It's impossible to print a newspaper that won't offend someone somehow; we shouldn't tie ourselves in knots censoring worthwhile ideas. But, keeping in mind alternatives for intelligent expression, we need not go out of our way to offend for the sake of being cool. <p>Profanity seldom is a sign of intellect; often it's a cover for barren reasoning. Save it for when it's needed. Sure, occasionally it's the best way. But how often, and at what price to our credibility and readership?<p>[ October 14, 2003: Message edited by: Wayne Countryman ]</p>
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